虚情假意的人太多了....

当身边有很多虚情假意的朋友时，你会觉得很恐怖吧？
表面上跟你很好，背后却对别人说你的坏话，在你面前却能够装着对你很好，对你微笑...

想到曾经有一个这样的朋友真的让我感到很心寒..

that is all....nitez...

再好的人也会被人讨厌....

再好的人也会被人讨厌....不懂大家会不会赞成这一句话？

其实无论你对所有人再怎么好也都会惹来别人的不赞成，不喜欢。。。

有些人会因为你的好而嫉妒你，讨厌你，因为你那么人见人爱，得到许多友情，得到别人的欢心。。。

别人不喜欢你，因此你也不喜欢他。。。这种行为听多了都不足为奇了因为在我们身边都会常常看到这样的情况。。。

所以在我觉得没有必要问：“你觉得我这个人怎样？” 这样的问题。问了又怎样？得到答案了又怎样？或许又是一些虚情假意的话。。这一秒跟你说你人很好，乐于助人，是个开心果；下一秒可能你就会成了人家的话柄。

是，你只是想知道你的坏处，尝试改掉缺点，但身边总是会有很多小人，在你身边说你坏话，影响你在别人心中的形象，让你防不胜防。

自己的缺点，想必自己多多少少都会知道，只是你不肯去面对。对，是有旁观者清，这一句话，但又有谁比你更了解你自己呢？还没发现的缺点也会随着你的生活，一一被发现。。。

不要担心被别人讨厌，因为再怎么好的人都会被人家讨厌，人，总会经过被别人讨厌的时候，只要你做回你自己，相信自己，喜欢自己，那就已足够了。。

I just found out that I don't know you at all...

Has anyone being betrayed by friends before? I bet there a lot of people outside there experienced that before...but I don't...

You will find out that is really a horror and scary thing when the person that you thought he or she is a best friend of yours and you know he/she very well...

BUT...

Suddenly, let say after 10 years you know him/her, you just know your friend real character and your friend character is really far more different from what you have known...I am sure that you will feel that your 10 years have been hiden with a lot of lies..

I have heard some betrayal case in my life...and many of the people that being betrayed won't have best friend anymore, I think they have experienced some sort of disease which i would like to name as "Friend Phobia"

I won't blame that kind of people from keeping distance or not being friendly because I think is a normal reaction...but it is really hurt that the person that you thought he/she is your best friend for quite sometimes and then suddenly you found out that he/she doesn't even think about that and you are just a stranger to your friend..

Whatever it is, I just hope that people that faced betrayal will find their confidence in friend and won't change into a "double-faced person"...

Hope that you guys will choose friend carefully and have a clue of how to face different kinds of people..

I love u~

我爱你，即是那么简单却又那么复杂的三个字啊。。。
我爱你，可能一些人会觉得俗气，觉得现在这个时代没有必要把它挂在嘴边。。。
我爱你，是那么的容易说出口，但世上有多少个人真正懂的它的含义呢？

这三个字，可能一些人不需要，但我相信还是有很多女生很想听到，来自一个爱自己的人口中听到，是一件多么幸福的事啊！

有些女生希望男朋友每天都对她们说“我爱你”，但其实这三个字他们是否发自内心呢？是不是这三个字是女生的定心剂呢？

对，我也是觉得这三个字很重要，它是感情上一个必要的保证，但并没有天天都必须听到它的必要，哪怕是一年才听到一次，只要是发自内心也是一种甜蜜。。。

一定会有人疑问，怎么知道是真心还是假意呢？这样的问题我也不会回答，感情这东西讲究的就是感情/feel 咯，跟着自己心里的话，自己的想法去处理感情相信就是唯一的方法吧！

太理智的人，要跟着常理来处理感情的人，会得到爱情吗？我不知道。。或许会。。但想必他/她都需要很长的时间才能找到真爱吧！而在那过程中可能会错过或变得忧郁不决吧？

我爱你，想必会有很多不同的定义。。你又会怎么看待这三个字呢？

Another chatting night...

Life is always that simple...
Sometimes we just feel boring especially those studying at Kampar..I know this feeling very well..x.x
Then we ended up by chit-chatting and gossiping to pass our boring night..

Maybe some people will think that this kind of chit-chatting is a kind of wasting of time..
they would rather use their precious time for studying or even more useful such as people like Donald Trump..He might earn a few millions in a few minutes or hours...

But...

We...(can I say that my new family in Kampar?) just find that chit-chatting is quite a fun activity for us..
Just now we chat a lot of things...Chat a bit about our secondary life also...
Though i know every people life experience is different but is really a different feeling when we heard those experience from other people, although we have thought about that before.

I know people thinking about something which I thought that it is just happened seriously in my school but tonight's chat just make me found that it is just a common problem and really have those people that like to spread rumours..what a sad thing to hear that..

Feel a bit of lucky to have such a simple life..I don't know whether i will face such thing(people that like to spread rumours) in my future but hopefully that I will know how to face even when I come to it..

Trying to have nice smile in my simple life..going to sleep..nitex to myself..