还是好朋友....

曾经的好朋友，这句话想必一定有很多人体会过吧！

但，我很讨厌这句话，因为这意味着你跟你的好朋友已经不如从前的好，或者是已经决裂。。。

好像把你还是当着好朋友，但却觉得自己好像一厢情愿，可是心里还是永远有着你的位置，但冷淡的回应有时候会让人再往后退几步，因为担心你已经不想再有这个好朋友。。。

不开心但还是无可奈何，毕竟世上在友谊问题上没有固定的对与错的理论，只能互相迁就，互相体谅。。。

上帝赐的缘分要珍惜，不想失去朋友，但偏偏天意弄人，总爱设些考验测试大家。。

还是很想，很想回到从前，从前开心聊天的日子，无话不谈的日子，常常都会想念这些日子，盼望着那天又会从来，哪怕这是一天，也让我如此的满足。。。

简单的问候都说不出口，好不希望自己是这样胆怯的人，但还是过不到自己害怕的感觉，最后还是却步了。。。

我不喜欢吵嘴，所以我选择沉默，或许一些人会认为我逃避，但我只是讨厌用这样的方式解决问题，就像我说的，友谊里没有对与错的理论，只想做我自己，无论在感情，友情里我只希望能够做回我自己，不是说我要把我自己的那套，套在别人身上，而是我自己处理事情的方式。。。

但愿。。。你们都还是我的好朋友。。。

好感， 喜欢， 爱。。。

希望你能看见这，搞清楚自己的感觉，别再让自己处在海中摇荡的船只一样了...

好感~

1.一個良好的印象，不討厭
2.可能也會有小鹿乱撞的感覺
3.會被對方吸引，如某方面的才華或優點
4.久沒見到就會忘了

喜歡~

1.好感的持續
2.你開始在意這個人，會去注意他的事情
3.可能會多看他幾眼，遇到一些事情可能會想到他
4.但是這些情況下你會想到的可能不只一個人
5.他們都能牽動你的情緒
6.你會在乎他對你的感覺
7.可能會想到二人會否有將來
8.若失去他，會感到幻得幻失

愛~

1.一次只能愛一個人
2.他能使你全心奉獻
3.他的地位是任何人都不能取代的
4.你的思想、行為、喜好都會受到他的影響
5.他的喜怒哀樂也等於你的喜怒哀樂
6.希望可以長相撕守
7.失去了他，會傷心得肝腸寸斷，痛徹心脾

Is a GiFt~

A gift~
What can you think of? A diamond? A person? Or a power?

Today the "gift" word that run through my mind is power...

A power that can let people forget all his unhappy things easily..

I believe that many people cannot do this as the unhappy things will just keeping on the locking in their heart as they don't want to let it go...

Sometimes we just need to know how to let ourselves relax and don't keeping struggling on the same matter..

This gift you can also named as "forgetful" maybe this word people will say that you are an old person...

But when we meet unhappy things, this will turn into a "gift"..

A gift that will let yourself to be happy again...
A gift that can let the people around you not to be affected...
A gift that release you from the anger...

Things gonna to be different when look into it with positive attitude...

Just keep inside the heart...

Have you ever feel that things are heavy in your heart?

You wish to say it out but condition just force you not to do so...

Why? why do problems keep on popping out in life?

Why can't we have the simple life?

I can understand the feeling of cannot help doing of anything...

Sometimes we just need to have some skills to communicate in life when things get complicated, hear this from a friend..

Ya, I agree with this..but i think most of the condition in life just make us to keep things in our heart as we grow older....

And this is one of the way in life~

Friends…

Who are our friends? What is a function of friend?

To be only a chit chatter? To be used? To be bullied?

I wondered why some of the people will treat others as friends even though they don’t like each other.

And some even more stupid to believe that a person is a good friend of him by saying the sweet talk while the fact is that you are just being use as a listener whenever problems come..

Friends…might be full of memories with them…and those memories just make the invisible bonds between each other…

But..when the time pass by…those memories won’t be strong enough to tie the bond anymore..

And..when we are distance from each other…we will slowly being forgotten..

There are so many pretentious friends around but yet we still have to face them…

Life keeps on rounding and rounding these things gonna happen again and again..

人是犯贱的, 即使受伤，还是想继续拥有，因为心里承受不了心中的寂寞…

虚情假意的人太多了....

当身边有很多虚情假意的朋友时，你会觉得很恐怖吧？
表面上跟你很好，背后却对别人说你的坏话，在你面前却能够装着对你很好，对你微笑...

想到曾经有一个这样的朋友真的让我感到很心寒..

that is all....nitez...

再好的人也会被人讨厌....

再好的人也会被人讨厌....不懂大家会不会赞成这一句话？

其实无论你对所有人再怎么好也都会惹来别人的不赞成，不喜欢。。。

有些人会因为你的好而嫉妒你，讨厌你，因为你那么人见人爱，得到许多友情，得到别人的欢心。。。

别人不喜欢你，因此你也不喜欢他。。。这种行为听多了都不足为奇了因为在我们身边都会常常看到这样的情况。。。

所以在我觉得没有必要问：“你觉得我这个人怎样？” 这样的问题。问了又怎样？得到答案了又怎样？或许又是一些虚情假意的话。。这一秒跟你说你人很好，乐于助人，是个开心果；下一秒可能你就会成了人家的话柄。

是，你只是想知道你的坏处，尝试改掉缺点，但身边总是会有很多小人，在你身边说你坏话，影响你在别人心中的形象，让你防不胜防。

自己的缺点，想必自己多多少少都会知道，只是你不肯去面对。对，是有旁观者清，这一句话，但又有谁比你更了解你自己呢？还没发现的缺点也会随着你的生活，一一被发现。。。

不要担心被别人讨厌，因为再怎么好的人都会被人家讨厌，人，总会经过被别人讨厌的时候，只要你做回你自己，相信自己，喜欢自己，那就已足够了。。

I just found out that I don't know you at all...

Has anyone being betrayed by friends before? I bet there a lot of people outside there experienced that before...but I don't...

You will find out that is really a horror and scary thing when the person that you thought he or she is a best friend of yours and you know he/she very well...

BUT...

Suddenly, let say after 10 years you know him/her, you just know your friend real character and your friend character is really far more different from what you have known...I am sure that you will feel that your 10 years have been hiden with a lot of lies..

I have heard some betrayal case in my life...and many of the people that being betrayed won't have best friend anymore, I think they have experienced some sort of disease which i would like to name as "Friend Phobia"

I won't blame that kind of people from keeping distance or not being friendly because I think is a normal reaction...but it is really hurt that the person that you thought he/she is your best friend for quite sometimes and then suddenly you found out that he/she doesn't even think about that and you are just a stranger to your friend..

Whatever it is, I just hope that people that faced betrayal will find their confidence in friend and won't change into a "double-faced person"...

Hope that you guys will choose friend carefully and have a clue of how to face different kinds of people..

I love u~

我爱你，即是那么简单却又那么复杂的三个字啊。。。
我爱你，可能一些人会觉得俗气，觉得现在这个时代没有必要把它挂在嘴边。。。
我爱你，是那么的容易说出口，但世上有多少个人真正懂的它的含义呢？

这三个字，可能一些人不需要，但我相信还是有很多女生很想听到，来自一个爱自己的人口中听到，是一件多么幸福的事啊！

有些女生希望男朋友每天都对她们说“我爱你”，但其实这三个字他们是否发自内心呢？是不是这三个字是女生的定心剂呢？

对，我也是觉得这三个字很重要，它是感情上一个必要的保证，但并没有天天都必须听到它的必要，哪怕是一年才听到一次，只要是发自内心也是一种甜蜜。。。

一定会有人疑问，怎么知道是真心还是假意呢？这样的问题我也不会回答，感情这东西讲究的就是感情/feel 咯，跟着自己心里的话，自己的想法去处理感情相信就是唯一的方法吧！

太理智的人，要跟着常理来处理感情的人，会得到爱情吗？我不知道。。或许会。。但想必他/她都需要很长的时间才能找到真爱吧！而在那过程中可能会错过或变得忧郁不决吧？

我爱你，想必会有很多不同的定义。。你又会怎么看待这三个字呢？

Another chatting night...

Life is always that simple...
Sometimes we just feel boring especially those studying at Kampar..I know this feeling very well..x.x
Then we ended up by chit-chatting and gossiping to pass our boring night..

Maybe some people will think that this kind of chit-chatting is a kind of wasting of time..
they would rather use their precious time for studying or even more useful such as people like Donald Trump..He might earn a few millions in a few minutes or hours...

But...

We...(can I say that my new family in Kampar?) just find that chit-chatting is quite a fun activity for us..
Just now we chat a lot of things...Chat a bit about our secondary life also...
Though i know every people life experience is different but is really a different feeling when we heard those experience from other people, although we have thought about that before.

I know people thinking about something which I thought that it is just happened seriously in my school but tonight's chat just make me found that it is just a common problem and really have those people that like to spread rumours..what a sad thing to hear that..

Feel a bit of lucky to have such a simple life..I don't know whether i will face such thing(people that like to spread rumours) in my future but hopefully that I will know how to face even when I come to it..

Trying to have nice smile in my simple life..going to sleep..nitex to myself..